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Send to a friend My problem started 3 years ago, there was this guy i used to admire and so did he, we never really talked much about the issue, but it was kind of obvious, at the end of the first year we finally opened the issue, and decided we weren't ready to start a relationship yet, however we decided to be friends, but i was shocked to find this person completely forgetting about me and mistreating me, we had a couple of fights and that was when i decided to open up the issue again. He told me that his feelings towards me changed and that he wasn't sure about it anymore and so i carried on with my life, ofcourse it was extremely painful at the beginning but then i managedto go on.My problem is that he's back now, he says he still cares, I've been through so much pain because of him, he says he did that cause he wanted to protect me. Should I just forget about him and carry on or should i give him a second chance ?
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- An important factor you should consider when it comes to relationships, whether they are "just friends" or more than that, communication is key, and things left unsaid are not really there, and most of the times misunderstandings come out from this situation. The best way to go about your particular issue would be to open the subject and discuss about your feelings with him, and see where he stands. Do keep in mind, most of the stuff you think he thinks, is probably not there, we as humans tend to imagine what we want from the others, especially when there is a lack of communication. Give this relationship a fair and balanced chance, talk to him about it. Tell him what you feel, how you feel it, and when you feel it. And if he does not understand, move on. Another one better will come along. Boys are like trains: one lives, another one pulls in a few minutes later... Just be careful not to hurt yourself in the process, keep cool and be as detached from emotions as possible. And remember: if he does not say it, it is probably only in your head. So ask questions. All the time! Good luck!
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