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[102] Mom And Dad Didn't Ask For This

The last time I had a hug was when my friend left for college in August. Even then, it was just a quick embrace that friends give each other.
Hugging makes me feel so uncomfortable. My mom and dad used to hug me, but I pulled away, so they haven't tried in a long time.

I know I sound silly, but I don't like being touched. My friends will ask why occasionally, but I shrug. I can't tell them the truth. I can't tell them that when I was 11, I was raped, and from that moment I haven't been able to accept affection from people.

Believe me, I want it so bad I could cry. In fact, I'm crying right now, but I just don't know how to let people hold me like that. Especially the ones I love. It was nine years ago that it happened, and although he still haunts my dreams, I'm not going to let him ruin my life anymore.



Posted 2 years ago



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  • That's right, don't let him ruin your life anymore. It's been nine years so you should get over it and stop thinking about it. It is probably hard for you, but think on the bright side, the past is the past, and it's not like you had a choice. Things like this happen everyday to people unfortunately.

    It is time to move on with your life. Think positively, forget the past.
    Posted 2 years ago

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